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Hurray for finally getting my new prescription in my old glasses! It only took me a year. Now I’m back to my nerdy self ✌️

simplifying

so this whole simplifying thing is a lot harder than I thought it would be.

The reason it takes me ages to clean/organize any space ever: I spend more time color organizing my markers than working on the important things…. #springcleaning #simplify

r e f r e s h e d

“We want to be great-immediately great-but that is not how recovery works. It is an awkward, tentative, even embarrassing process. There will be many times when we won’t look good-to ourselves or anyone else. We need to stop demanding that we do. It is impossible to get better and look good at the same time.”
— Julia Cameron -The Artist’s Way

#nightscenes #richmondeateries #rva #thosefriedplantainstho

Ambition vs. Happiness

"There’s a common belief that happiness and ambition are incompatible. Many ambitious people I’ve known seem eager to claim that they aren’t happy, almost as a way to emphasize their zeal, in echo of Andrew Carnegie’s observation "Show me a contented man, and I’ll show you a failure." Perhaps the happiness-thwarting feelings of dissatisfaction, competitiveness, and jealousy are neccessary goads for ambition. If I remained ambitious, was it impossible to be happy? If my project made me happier, would I become complacent? Was the arrival falacy an important mechanism to keep me striving? Studies show that many creative, influential people in the arts and public life score above average in ‘neuroticism’ (i.e., they have greater propensity to experience negative emotions); this doscontent arguably urges them to higher acievement. Other studies, however, show that people tend to think more flexibly and with more complexity when they’re feeling happy. But whatever a wide-ranging study might show about the connection between ambition and happiness generally, I realized that for my own part, I was much more likely to take risks, reach out to others, and expose myself to rejection and failure when I felt happy." -Gretchen Rubin


What say you, all you artists and creative types?
Do you feel like this is the case for you?
I know I can definitely relate.
It’s hard not to dwell on negative things sometimes and feel like those are the things that push you forward and motivate you to become better and push you towards your ambitions and goals.
I think that mindset can be really great sometimes, but I also think we so often get stuck in that discontent and in a cycle where we think if we don’t have negative in our life, or we’re not dwelling on it extensively, we must not be making progress and aren’t motivated and passionate enough in our work.


I’d love to hear your thoughts! On this, as well as on what you do to get yourself out of those negative slumps and creative roadblocks. How do you balance ambition and happiness?

//Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.- Maya Angelou//

People who can laugh at themselves and don’t take themselves too seriously are my favorite People who can laugh at themselves and don’t take themselves too seriously are my favorite

People who can laugh at themselves and don’t take themselves too seriously are my favorite

Daddy just popped in a Bob Dylan cd he found while cleaning out the boat last time he was there.
And now he’s retelling all the stories he’s got that remind him of Bob Dylan.

"I would listen to this song when I missed your momma… Although she never was a big bob Dylan fan"

"My prom date senior year was big into Bob Dylan. Also Janis Joplin. Which I never understood."

"In highschool there was a ski trip we all went on. We took a bus. There was this guy, Alex, who was Armenian, who had a boom box in his lap and played Bob Dylan the whole time. At 2am. And when we’d protest he’d just turn it up louder and say ‘you just don’t appreciate it man’. So at the next rest stop I took out one of the batteries and put it in the luggage compartment. He blamed me right away but I denied it."

My dad is the coolest.

//A Happy List//

/Nice hot dog cart owners who help you parallel park the pick up truck you’re driving

/Chai tea lattes. Always.

/Being able to say “I got it in New Mexico” when a friendly stranger asks where you got your hat. #traveller #eclecticwanderer

/Green paint chipped tables

/Learning new things about my parents. Especially in how similar they were to me at my age. Being reminded where I come from.

/My Dad turning up the radio and singing along to Goodnight Kiss by Randy Houser

/My grandma emailing me a recipe for quinoa cause she knew I wanted to try it

This guy takes his coffee seriously @themorningtimes #themorningtimes #coffeecoffeecoffee